The article is a part of the Easter Aftermath series.
Nobody would say a marriage is a success because two people exchanged vows. That’s simply the starting point. A successful marriage should be gauged by how healthy the relationship is. It isn’t something that can be effectively measured without time and effort. But we can do things to ensure a marriage starts healthy and grows in a healthy direction. Pre-marital counseling. Consistent prayer and hard work toward strengthening the relationship. A biblical view of the roles of husband and wife. We see the model for this in the Scripture, so we don’t have to make it up ourselves. 1 Corinthians clarifies biblical love. Ephesians 5 clarifies love and respect from the couple in a growing healthy marriage. Even so, in the US 40 to 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. But what does that have to do with gauging the success of Easter and other highly attended services in our churches? We celebrate these days in the same way we would a marriage: sharing pictures, posting attendance and decision numbers and hoping everything progresses toward successful growth both spiritually and numerically. But all too often we make the same mistake many make in marriage by not focusing on the health and growth of the people afterward. Celebrating decisions without a plan for making disciples is like celebrating the wedding without planning to help people through the marriage. This is not a process the church should emulate. People need to be discipled, just like Jesus discipled Peter, James, and John. Just like He built biblical community with the twelve. [bctt tweet=”Celebrating decisions without a plan for making disciples is like celebrating the wedding without planning to help people through the marriage. This is not a process the church should emulate.” via=”no”] When it comes to Easter, most churches look forward to a spike in attendance, an uptick in new guests, and fresh excitement for a new series. But it can be difficult to see how all of these elements impact the ongoing life of the church. Even the best follow-up strategies can fall short. But we must press into this issue if we honestly want to gauge effectiveness. I’m not writing about the follow-up process itself. Whether you call or visit or email every visitor you had on Easter or any highly attended gathering for that matter, there is something critical we can miss with our processes if we aren’t careful. We must learn to focus on where we want to go as intently as we focus on where we have been. The excitement of one great week must be matched with the excitement of what can happen as a result of effective disciple-making. We should absolutely celebrate every win, but not lose sight of the ongoing call to make disciples. To do that, we must be laser-focused on the next steps of our people. [bctt tweet=”The excitement of one great week must be matched with the excitement of what can happen as a result of effective disciple-making.” via=”no”] While this may not sound groundbreaking, it can make all the difference in how successful highly attended days are in our churches. When it comes to personal spiritual growth, the next step is too often implied. We must make it clear and simple while providing a plan, or pathway for every individual. It must transcend joining the church. Moving people to their next step should be an integral part of every facet of our ministries. Here are four ways next steps help us gauge the success of highly attended days like Easter:-
Focus on Equipping believers.
-
Discipleship is not optional.
-
Biblical community is critical.
-
Multiplication is the goal.